I had originally posted for help with getting out of overwhelming debt, but now life has taken a turn for the absolute WORST!!! I had been hospitalized multiple times due to difficulties during pregnancies which had ultimately ended in a miscarriage. I have now had 7 total miscarriages and doctors are unable to determine the cause. HEARTBROKEN. I do not have any children (of my own) and am 35 years old. I do have a 9 year old stepson, who i am extremely thankful to have in my life and cherish since he may be the only child i EVER get to have and parent… :'(
In 2018 I was carrying twins. I lost one baby quite early and even though it was devastating then I had hope for my second baby. I continued term for another month and a half and lost heartbeat by my next appointment. At that time, hospital visits and my boyfriend having to miss work as well put us a bit behind. I took out a loan to consolidate bills and try to catch up. My boyfriend lost his job. We just cannot catch a break!! He did find another job and we felt that we were doing well and getting back on track. I became pregnant again last summer. I only made it 2 months until I was rushed to the hospital for severely hemorrhaging. They could not stop the bleeding nor stabilize my blood pressure. I vaguely remember falling in and out of consciousness while my mother and boyfriend held my hands and cried. Thank GOD they were able to bring my blood pressure up enough to keep me stable, just as they had told my family i need an emergency blood transfusion! I was on bed rest and out of work for a couple of weeks, without pay. Again, forcing us to rely on credit cards to make ends meet. I have sold most all of my jewelry and anything of value to make some cash. At this time I also had to quit my second job as a bartender. Working 70+ hours was killing me, literally. Fast forward…
My health has greatly improved since leaving the second job but we are struggling to get pay on a daily basis, even with my strategic-budgeting plans. I work my full time job, with overtime and my boyfriend is working as a small engine/lawn mower repair mechanic. AGAIN, I was able to get a loan in attempt to consolidate bills and get back on our feet. My grandfather co-signed for me to help me out… This was two weeks ago. I have been budgeting like crazy in order to tackle the $25,000 in debt we have accrued… I paid everything that i could and had an aggressive plan in order to wipe out these debts with the “avalanche” model… I just made another large payment on a credit card leaving me with JUST enough to get by until next check..
Enter landlord. Yesterday evening she spontaneously informed us that we need to move!!!!! Her grandson is getting married and they decided that he was going to move into my apartment. I have been here 4 years… building a home, rebuilding our lives, picking up all the pieces of our heartbreak and doing everything possible to get back to a progressive life… I had hoped to get debt under control enough to start saving in the next year or so and THEN look into improving our living situation, maybe buying a house. But now, that whole dream is shattered and we are being kicked out of our sanctuary with nothing. We do NOT have the money to move and start yet again… I worked 3 jobs 90+ hours a week in order to get into this current apartment. I don’t know where else to turn.. i cannot get a loan, our debt is still overwhelming and now our little family is in danger of being homeless… I really dont know how you can throw out good, loyal tenants with a 9 year old child out like this but we are desperate!!! We have no choice, we need to move. We will never be able to save enough money for first last and security in the next couple of months.. So here I am. Begging.. STRAIGHT BEGGING for help for my family… I am praying that someone will find our story and be willing to help.. it doesnt hurt to try. I am trying anything and everything to make sure that the only little family i will ever have will be okay… Thank you for your time… and hope this finds the right person… or people.. every single little bit will help! God Bless <3
Thank you in advance for any kindness and generosity shown to us !!