Hello, my name is Dale
I am 26 years old and currently seek help. For as long as I could remember I’ve always been the giving person either it be for my close family or my friends, even random strangers if they have crossed my way. Never have I asked for anything in return but it has crossed my mind as of “ it be nice” in that gesture. Not too long ago I helped a family member and had given them my savings 30k to be exact, why ? It was something I was just compelled to do. This is an amount I have saved for years, hoping to move on buy a house start a life with someone special. But instead I got ghosted by who I thought was in my life again after being gone for a majority of it.
I had no regrets until everything around me came crashing down and reality hit.
hospital bills, repossessions, lost wages, broken car, depression, shot credit
The list can go on it’s the feeling of I would give my life to protect the smiles of my loved ones if I could help them in some sort of way.
but it’ll get better eventually was the goto quote id say in my head.
I don’t make a lot, and what I do have it goes back.
I work as a civil servant, I’ve probably protected your home at one point, smiled at you and carried on.
my blood sweat and tears have kept me moving to find any means to continue.
this is a very vague paragraph, but the matter of the fact is yes. I am struggling, one sided loans are terrible, my credit is bad which was not by self infliction. I barely make enough sometimes during bill time. So I either choose to skip to eat on some days or just not think about it.
For the individual, if you’ve chosen to help me
Even for a day or a month you’d have picked me back up on my feet and given me back my stability. thank you