Around August I was building my credit at a fast pace so I could get my family in a better fanatical state. I got my credit up and was going to get a home loan and buy my first house for my wife, myself and our 4 year old daughter.
Right at the finish line, my wife out of the blue takes our daughter and moves in with her parents and doesn’t say a word to me. She blocks me, gets a new phone and number, like basically tries to ghost me. I still don’t get it.
Come to find out she had been cheating on me. She’s in love with another guy. 8 years down the drain in the blink of an eye.
- I got her a newer model car, traded mine in for the down payment, and took her old wagon to use for work. Well the wagon dies. I have no transportation anymore at this point cause she obviously took the car I got her. We’re less than a month from moving. She leaves me to deal with everything and goes on about her life like I don’t exist. I don’t hear from her or my daughter for weeks. She left me with all these bills that we share financially, knowing we depend on each other financially. We needed both our paychecks to live. So now I have 2 phone plans to pay for, since she got a new one, I have 2 cars to insure, cause she never got her own insurance, we had a storage unit we were supposed to each pay every other month. And we’re losing it because she never paid it like she was supposed to. Now I have to find a place to live on my own in less than a month.
My mom and her boyfriend helped me find a car and a place to move, but now I’m double the distance away from work so I can be close to my daughters school and it kills me in gas and I only see my daughter on weekends.
My wife won’t talk to me or accept responsibility for her financial portions. So insurance is about to lapse cause it’s $600 (wife’s past driving record isn’t the greatest). Luckily it’s the last payment for two cars. Then it drops to $120 for me alone.
My home is RTO and it’s $1200 a month.
I finally was able to get T-Mobile to remove the 2nd line from my account which took 2 months for some reason. So I have 1 last high phone bill $220 then it drops down to $75 I think. And all this is due in a very short amount of time.
I’m barely surviving. I don’t have any groceries in my refrigerator. I hate even being here typing this out but idk what else to do. I feel like I’m drowning because my wife is selfish and doesn’t care about anyone else’s lives or how she’s affecting them. My credit score that I worked hard to build up, dropped 100 points in 2 months because I have more going out than I do coming in and my wife doesn’t pay rent but spends her money on hair products and hotel rooms.
I can’t stand it anymore because I wanna do everything right for my daughter and my wife ripped her from my life and when I see her shes sad that I’m not there every day with her. It breaks my heart. I’m rambling I guess but any help would be appreciated.
I guess the goal to get myself back on track and out of this hole I got left in would be like $2500