I have been struggling the past few years with different medical diagnoses: Hidradenitis Suppurativa, Adenomyosis, Cervical Endometriosis, Fibroids, Trigeminal Neuralgia to name a few. In dealing with this difficult set of medical issues seem to ensure that I end up using up all of my allotted PTO for the year by July. Even though I am taking care of myself when I am off work, I am unable to comfortably take off between July and December due to the cuts in my paycheck, so I try to power through and do my best to work through the pain. Having an unexpected surgery, the day before Thanksgiving in 2022, put me over the edge (1 week with no pay and the other 5 with 60% of my paycheck) and left me unable to handle all of my bills (rent, electric, car, phone, insurance, etc.) and needed medications while making sure that I am able to put food on the table for my family.
I am trying to catch up/get ahead so that when this next surgery comes, we are on good footing and can make it work while I am once again out of work for a few weeks minimum and I can get us back ahead of the curve. While I’ve been able to rob Peter to pay Paul, it has caught up to me as stuff has ultimately fallen through the cracks to ensure there’s food on the table, a roof over our heads and electricity to keep us comfortable.
I am looking for assistance to ensure I get my medical bills paid off as well as catch up on my car note and get ahead in paying rent so that I can move forward with confidence and a strategy to stay current with everything even while facing at least 1 more surgery this year (possibly more depending on what the surgeon says regarding the affected areas of my body.
I have exhausted every other resource I have and cannot go to my parents for help. My dad passed in May and my mom has liver failure and congestive heart failure so needs to make sure she can take care of everything she needs done medically so she is around for the birth of her first great-grandchild.
Any assistance is greatly appreciated to help get back on track and in a positive place moving forward. I am working very hard to keep things under control, but know that without a car, house, or electricity, the struggle I already go through will be amplified. I currently paid July’s rent on July 26th only to have to try and turn around and pay July now. I”m just trying to get caught up and be a little ahead so we don’t fall into this situation again (now that I am aware of what’s coming in the future). I want to be ready.
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