My name is Michael.
I am 53 and i am divorced.
I have one daughter.
Here is my story:
My ex wife cheated on me with a rich guy.
So of course i got divorced.
I left my house in the Netherlands and went to the usa.
I got a new girlfriend, but she was addicted to a various kind of drugs, and she pretty much ripped me of with loads of excuses. So that was not a success. I went back to my country and lived alone for a year. My daughter at that time was 16.
The new friend of my ex wife had beaten my daughter. So what i did was i phoned him.
He laughed at me and put down the phone.
So what i did next was writing him an email.
Because of this email the police came to arrest me and i had to pay him a 4400 dollars and i was sentenced for 2 years in jail if i would do something to him within 2 years.
My daughter was angry at me for almost 2 years because i didn’t hurt the guy.
Well, i tried to explain her that this was and is no option. But i understand her feelings. It also still hurts me. Anyway.
After a year alone i met a lady in the easter side of my country.
I moved in with her. She has 2 sons. By that time neither she or me had money. I found a job in her place and i am still working there.
There is where all the misery starts again.
After 6 months working and living with her i discovered that she was a gamble addicted person.
When i confronted her with this she stopped our relationship. I was heartbroken because i had no place to go, my money was gone, i couldn’t support my daughter who was living at her own in a small chamber 120 miles away from me, i have no friends or family, and on top of that i got sick. I still had not a contract from my boss, and 1 week after she stopped our relationship my boss fired me. With my sickness and pain because of it, i had to find a new job and i did.
I lived in a shelter for homeless people for 6 months. Between drugs and alcohol addicts. I was the only one who was working. Then suddenly my ex girlfriend came to the shelter and asked me crying to come back.
So i did. I thought at that time that everybody deserves a 2th chance.
After a few months everything seemed to be perfect. Then at this certain day she asked me to put my money in a bank account which we could both use.
Well i did. At first there was no problem but because i needed a car i asked the bank for a loan.
That money was in no time gone.
When i asked her about this, she said: if you do t trust me…yme…you can go back to your shelter.
And thats what i did.
I was fired again, and found a new job directly after i was fired. But i had and still have debts.
I couldn’t give my daughter a xmas present and also nothing for her birthday. I go with my bike in every kind of weather 40 miles to my job. I have to pay tax back because they made a mistake because they didn’t inform me well.
I have to pay insurance for healthcare which am behind…and a few more things.
Long story short: if i can pay my debts which are in total without the loan 4000 US dollars, the i can have my life back.
What i have written here is really nothing compared to all what i have been trough.
My physical shape is now better, but i still have daily a lot of nerve pains.
Besides that i am not longer capable to get into a relationship because of other physical issues.
I cant get a loan at this time because i have no contract. That would take another 1.5 years.
I cant take that anymore.
Am fighting and fighting, but mentally i get very tired. I didn’t seen my daughter now for 1.5 years. She uses whatsapp once in a half year to check on me. It breaks my heart. I need really really your support to pay my debts and find a place for myself.
I hope you can understand what am going trough.
I even want to pay you back later.
Thank you for your time.