Hoping someone can help me with some temporary help. In order for my ex-husband to not lay claim to my pension, I had to pay him extra cash, keep some of our loans and give him 1/2 of my 401k from our divorce. During our 25 years of marriage, I was always the one with the stable job and benefits. He switched jobs multiple times always in hope of making a lot of money quickly. He never succeeded. To support our expenses & children, I sometimes worked two jobs to help make ends meet. I wanted to be a loving & supportive wife. Yes, I was VERY naïve! Finally divorced him and he was able to take 1/2 of everything even though he never came close to contributing 1/2 during our marriage. In addition to 1/2, I also had to pay him monthly maintenance for 5 years because my income greatly outweighed his. He never made a lot of money, so outweighing his income is very easy. After paying him for 5 years and helping the kids through school, I am completely tapped out. Used credit cards to stay afloat. Even though I have a secure & stable job, I’m struggling. Do not want to declare bankruptcy or do debt resolution because I believe in paying my debts. To improve cash flow and get back on track with my monthly payments $5,000 would help considerably. This amount would not wipe out my debt, but would allow me to get ahead of the monthly payments. Any amount would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!