hello my name is Marian Aleman, I’m 22 years old and I need help.
let me tell you a little of what’s happened in my life that got me where I am now.
When I was 17 I met my first boyfriend, we started dating around December 2017.
At the beginning everything seemed to go okay, only that it didn’t.
Me and him dated for about 5 years and in those 5 years, being with him managed to leave me in a very tough spot financially, mentally and health wise.
2019 we decided to move in together, at this point he had already cheated on me multiple times, me being an innocent 19 year old, whos never had a boyfriend or dated anyone I stayed and decided to move in with him anyway.
it was okay at the beginning, I thought us moving together would finally make it better, make this man love me and appreciate me.
For a good year this man didn’t work or do anything but play videogames, he even dropped out of school and stayed without working for a very long time.
at that time I was in school and working to keep a roof over our heads and pay bills.
I got suicidal, tried killing myself over 3 times and he didn’t even notice, to make it worse I ended up pregnant but I didn’t know. One day using the restroom I wiped myself and boom all I see is red, I was confused because I have very irregular periods where ill just get my period periodically, so turns out i had a miscarriage.
a month after I found out he cheated on me again. I stayed.
throughout this whole time I had to go out to payday loan agencies to get loans so we could afford to live and have a roof over our heads.
but unfortunately me being a 19 year old didn’t know i had to pay really high interest rates and the amount of what I owed would always go up.
so no I have collection on my credit score and a lot of debt. Since I dropped out of school because just having to work to keep a home together and go to school is so hard I wasn’t doing really good, he would get jealous of my classmates so it was horrible to even go to school.
fast forward now, I left that boyfriend and I’m trying to get my life back on track.
now dealing with really bad GERD which makes me throw up almost all I eat, with debt and no home.
So I’m just looking to get my life back together, I am currently working on getting my debt consolidated and taken care of.
I’ve been making payments of 510.00 every two weeks but i only make 2300 a month, which is barely enough to cover all these bills and rent.
I tried making a collage with some of the statements.