Hi, I am in need of creating a new start for me and my autistic grandson. I recieved custody of him in October of 2022. He came to live with me and my fiance and I thought everything would be great. Unfortunately, my now, ex- fiance hasn’t adjused to well because of the special needs that my grandbaby has. It has caused a lot of upheavals between us causing me to call off the engagement. Eventually he took back the vehicle he purchased for me and we have grown cold towards one another. I understand that everyone is not equipped to handle a child’s with autism so, I try not to take it to personal. Especially considering my ex is 15 years older than me. However, I am completely dedicated to caring for my sweet little boy and I am willing to walk away from this relationship. I feel like my flesh and blood has my heart the most. Unfortunately, I am not in a financial situation to pick up and move. My fear is that staying in this current situation, (still living in my ex- fiances home,) will further exasperate the tension between us and, he will grow resentment towards us the longer we are here. I currently sleep in the bedroom with my grandson and, my ex and I barley communicate. If we do start a conversation it always leads to conflict. I am over it. Currently I am waiting for the processing of paper work to get my grandson in childcare so I can focus on getting back into my career. It has been a tedious process especially because of the waiting list. At the moment I am working part time performing Independent contracting to pay my personal bills and expenses. At this point, It would be my dream to move into my own home and start over, raise my grandson with the love and attention that he deserves. I see he has been making big strides since he has been with me and is talking and reading. He will be attending kindergarten when the new school year starts. I am excited for him. I would love if we could be stable and settled when that time approaches. It is so much stress having to worry about getting out of my situation and trying to maintain my responsibilitys.
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