My name is Ryan and I am slowly picking up the pieces in my life. Two years ago, I separated from my wife of ten years, who is narcissistic and emotionally abusive. She would always accuse me of cheating and would even create situations and scenarios of what I did based on conversations she would have with her friends or people that she read tarot for. Over the years It drove me into a mental breakdown that left me in bad shape for a year until I received counseling. Every time I wanted to leave, she would sabotage me, leave me broken and alone turning everyone I know against me to the point to where I had to go back and deal with her in shame and deal with her abuse for survival. When I had finally had enough and left, she claimed to be pregnant, but did not show me any pictures or certificates or any proof. She abandoned me and bought property out of state. I spent most of my saved money paying off the lease that we rented and I lived in a hotel and slowly got myself together. I got a job and a place and saved slowly. So two months ago, she kept telling me about three kids that we had and I inquired about it more because she said she was homeless. I offered to help get her on her feet and maybe be around them. When we moved in together, she backed away from everything that she said she was going to do. She blamed me for everything. If I asked about bills, I was portraying negative energy. If she lost something I stole it and had to replace it or she was going to leave with all of the bills. If she didn’t get something her way, one of the women I was talking to casted spellwork and I had to rebuke them or I’m defending them against her. If something was out of place, I let women in the house to move furniture. After a month, I had enough but all of my savings were completely home. I couldn’t get tax paperwork from her so I lost $4,000 in Financial Aid, my credit nosedive. I had gotten a new apartment, new car, and was setting things up for kids that I learned that nobody she knows has seen them. Now she threatens to leave me with all the bills if I don’t do what she says. I managed to leave and get back to my old apartment. But I am in bad shape. I’m currently getting emotional support from friends and family as I am recovering. The reasoning I am requesting help is so I can pay for the divorce papers and for recovering my items that I lost in the time with her. I am requesting $9000 to: I am not picky at all about help and I not really one who has been in this situation before. I just hope that someone can hear my story and help me out.
$4000- Buy lease out of apartment.
$5,000- Pay of accumulation of bills and catch back up with my finances.