Hello, I am a 28 male lookin to restart my life. I was laid off last year and I have been dealing with the death of my grandma, father, and uncle all over the past two years. I have turned to negative actions to cope with my sadness and depression (alcohol, retail therapy, and more). I have been at the lowest of lows but I met a girl and she is the love of my life and I want to restart to show her that I can provide for us. I just need some help paying off some debt so I can properly start saving for a ring for her. I have about $8,000 of debt that I just cannot pay for.. I have other debt but I have worked with that to get a payment plan that I can afford. My ask? If a group of strangers that do not know me, but will forever become part of my family and will ALWAYS be able to rely on me (once I restart my life), to lend me some cash.