Hello everyone, I hope you are having a nice day.
Today I need all the help possible, I put you in context.
My girlfriend and I have known each other for more than 5 years and we have been in a love relationship for 2 years, all this from a distance until 4 months ago (March) that we met in person. We are both 20, she is from Argentina and I am from Colombia.
Personally I have been in a very strong emotional crisis for more than 3 years and she has been a great support for me during all this time, let’s get straight to the point. This year I decided, just after visiting her for a month, that I want to move to her country not only for her but also because the university is completely free in her country and so far I have not been able to study in person for more than 4 years. , also to make new friends and meet new people since I feel that I am stagnating little by little; At the moment she is in the middle of a small degree so she still lives with her parents, so I need money for the tickets and at least three months of rent, which would be a total of more or less than 1000usd.
I managed to get the tickets at a discount and pay for them with two small freelance payments, but even so, it’s not even enough to pay for the hold bag at the airline.
I spent months looking for a job in my country and they never called me back, so I decided to come to the United States for 4 months to try to get an informal job as a cashier or dishwasher to save money, but it’s been two month and a half and I’m still at 0 , I can’t get them to call me back, I’ve even tried almost 10 different freelance sites (because I’m a multimedia student and I have a great ability with graphic design) but I haven’t been able to get the smallest job either. I’m still searching but I’m getting more and more worried about the situation because I’m running out of time, since the university has an enrollment limit in December and I’m a very emotional and sentimental person who doesn’t want to miss out on certain personal activities like Christmas, the soccer world cup, his birthday, because I know it would affect me a lot psychologically and emotionally.
So right now i just have 100usd and the fly ticket. I need to have a minimum of 500 usd between now and October 20. I keep looking for a job or ways to get money but I haven’t been able to.
I know it’s not the end of the world and that there are major problems and difficulties, but inside my little bubble, this is very important. I thank you very much for any help.