Hello everyone. I hope you all are doing well.
I met my boyfriend of now four years online, while I was living in Texas with my parents, and he was living in Georgia at the time. We talked and “dated” for a year and half before deciding that we finally wanted to meet. He drove all the way to Texas to visit me for about a week but he ended up staying, thanks to my parents that let him stay there. He got a job with a family member and was there for about six or seven months and then something came up with his parents in Georgia to which according to him, he had to move back and said that if I wanted to be with him I had to go with him because he didn’t want to be into a long distance relationship anymore. I loved him so of course I agreed to leave with him and we moved into his parents house. I struggled to find a job for a while and me not having my own transportation and him working out of state a lot was hard for me. After a while his mom helped me get a job where she worked and I rode with her to work for a while. Some time went by and he decided that he wanted to get me a car. He got it for me, under his name, for my birthday, after this things were easier for me, working wise. Some more time went by and out of nowhere he started acting different and talking about how I was a mistake and that he wanted me to leave. I discovered he was cheating and talking to other girls and that was why he was neglecting me. When he knew I found out he changed his ways, apologizing and saying that he didn’t want me to leave, this and that. I forgave him and we were good from then. Time goes by and he comes up with an excuse that I’m not doing anything with myself and that I’m always “angry and sad” (I have depression) he met me this way but I always tried to be happy. So because of that he didn’t want to be with me anymore and he was determined to take me back home to Texas, gave me a week to pack as little stuff as I could fit in the car so I could take with me and that week was hell for me emotionally. The day came and he took me but a few hours into the drive, he pulled over in Alabama and changed his mind, said he didn’t want to be without me and asked if I wanted to go back home with him, me foolishly said yes and we went back… not even two weeks after now he is doing it AGAIN saying that he just wants to be single for a while because I get “mad” at him for being out til five in the morning with his “friends” I’m sure he has other excuses but this time I agreed to him wanting me to leave. I already suffered enough and I’m over it. Tired of the way he has been. The problem is that I gave him all my last paycheck for car note and rent and I have no money left, he is not willing to drive me home to Texas this time and I have about a week and a half to leave. I need money to be able to ship boxes with some of my stuff to Texas, to get myself a plane ticket and Uber for when I go to the airport and when I get over there to be able to get home because I wont be able to have my car since it’s under his name. I don’t know what to do since I have nothing valuable to my name that I could sell to help myself out. If any of you could please help me out with anything it would be much appreciated. Anything helps.
Thank you so much in advance everyone.