I am hard working but I did end up in a very bad situation.
I am supporting 5 kids and married since 7 years. I have the youngest child together with my husband. A few days ago my husband left me for another women and my life did fall down like a card house. I did discover that the rent was not paid in 2 months. Even if the contract is in my name he did have control about the money and manage the family economy. Instead of paying the bills he did send the money to her in Libya. I did take a mortgage in April on 150.000 for us to buy a home in his country but that money is also gone. If i will not pay the Bill on 25000 and another 12500 buy the end of this month i will end up on the street with my kids. I do also need help to pay the mortgage on 150.000 since it is impossible for me to raise that kind of money on my one. I go to work every day, I leave my youngest in kindergarden and pick her up every day. My husband did also work but he did stat home much. Now I know that he did stay in home to talk with her online. My husband did go out walking much with himself and I did trust him when he told me that he is out walking because he is stress about his family in Libya. It is war in Libya and I know it makes him worried about his mum since she still live there. I cannot Even explain how bad I feel and stupid when I found out he did plan to marry one in Libya behind me. One time when he did go out walk he forgot his phone in home. The phone was ringing. I did not recognize the number but did see it was Libyan. So I did answer and she was in the other end. She was swearing me. She told me that she will destroy my life. She told me that my husband only was with me because i help him. Even her older brother did speak with me and confirm that my husband was about to marry his sister. My husband did come home and I did fight with him about this. He was swearing me even in front of our child. She start to cry. Now she have nightmares. I am in a very stress situation, my life is a total nightmare. My husband did not only go behind my back he did destroy my whole life.