I want to give a little background on my situation so maybe you can understand a little better why I’m asking for help. I’m 58 years old and so is my husband. We have been married 41 years (most of our lives). We have both always worked to support ourselves with my husband being the main bread winner. This was up until December 2006 when he woke up at 4am to get ready for work (hard labor) and fell out of bed. He could not get up, could not walk and could not feel his legs or feet. He ended up in Oregon Health Sciences Hospital in Portland Oregon, hooked up to all kinds of machines and having test after test and MRI’s . They were afraid the paralysis was going to move up to his heart and stop it. Luckily it stopped a little bit above his waist. To make a super long story short they think he has a syndrome that is a form of Guillian Barre syndrome which is an acute disorder of the peripheral nerves, the immune system attack itself causing weakness and paralysis of the limbs. He has not been back to work since 2006. Sense this happened he has had many medical problems such as major depression one day your a healthy hard working guy who is very physical next day you can’t even get to the bathroom on your own. He has fallen several times one of those times resulting in a compound fracture of his ankle which he has had several surgeries on in the last few years. He can walk with a walker or cane at times but then a lot of the time he can’t walk at all. The nerve pain is always there and he cannot shower or bath by himself his balance is terrible. I could go on all day about his health problems but that is not why I’m asking for help. We finally made it through the big medical bills a couple of years ago by using every penny we had and until about 3 months ago we had been scraping by on my part time job (I am my husbands only caregiver) no pay in that. And his disability check which basically pays the rent. But wait 3 months ago my dad (my mom passed a couple of years ago) had a stroke and ended up in Portland, Or at the hospital in need of 2 surgeries to clear the arteries in his neck. The first surgery went great he was home by the end of the week. But then he went back for the second surgery and there were problems as soon as they came out they had to take him back into surgery to stop bleeding. He didn’t wake up fully for a week and a half from the anesthesia. And then he didn’t know who I was or that my mom had died. After another 2 weeks we were finally able to transfer him to nursing home/ therapy facility. Now he is home and needs lots of care they have already pulled his drivers license so he has to be driven everywhere he needs to go. All of this takes extra money and time which I do not have and excess of. Between all the gas going back and forth and the time away from work I have gotten behind on almost every bill I have. I just need to catch up.Thank you for your time.