I can not believe how the court system works, I am stunned, sad. I have no idea what in the hell to do.
I am MALE of course. I am a male who just lost his house for NO reason, I am a male who is living in a motel for the next 5 days with his child, and then after that I am homeless if a miracle does not happen.
I rented my house in 2012. I have been at the home for 7 years.
I moved the woman in in 2015. She has been at the home for 3 years.
There is no lease for a very nice house, which makes no sense.
I caught my now ex cheating on me, threw her out, the only thing she owed was a few small things in my house. I let her take them, she left.
TWO days later after NO contact I was served with a PFA. This means protection from Abuse. The PFA requested that I be evicted from my home, I told the Sheriff I would NOT leave, he said I would be arrested if I did not leave. I said fuck this called my lawyer, who with the sheriff standing there said I must leave.
I was allowed to grab nothing because I spent time on the phone with my lawyer fighting this out. I was in the yard mind you the entire time, I entered to grab the kids cloths, I said I am not leaving. I was then told I would be placed under arrest.
I left, I went to the school, picked my child up, went to the salvation army in a panic and bought cloths for my son. I have had the same cloths on for three days. I am OUT of money. I am living in a shit motel trying to work to get more motel money. YES I do work. But that is an issue.
I work from my home, I have a huge garage there, i fixed cars, I made good money, enough to pay all of my bills. Now I am out of my home, and my business is on hold-or gone. $60,000.00 in tools gone.
I am a man so no one is going to give a shit. But my god I need help, i am usually the one helping people but they have all gone MIA.
CYS IS NOW calling me, I have no idea what to do other then refer them to my lawyer. I have no money to pay him at this point. I have no idea how I am going to feed anyone tonight let alone pay for my lawyer.
I can not believe this, I am homeless with children who need shoes, I do not even have the money for shoes. I mean a failed as a man, I am depressed. There is no one to help me, even the people I have helped in the past will not help me now.
This PFA says that I yelled and was mentally abusive, well ya, she was fucking some guy..Of course I yelled and threw her out, but days later this is illegal. My house is gone, my cars and personal belongings are at the house, and I have nothing. Did I mention before the PFA (protection from abuse) was filed my checking account was cleared out of $1000.00 leaving me at the time with $71.00 I am now -$332.00
I was suppose to have a hearing on friday but it was continued as the girls lawyer did not show, I am up on the motel as of Monday. I have no idea if anyone will read this but my god I need help. I am going to lose my kid to foster care due to this.
If I did not have a child who has no other parent I would probably off myself at this point. The other side says all I can have back is the possessions in my garage. I have pictures of the possessions inside of the house, they have been passed down by generations of my family. I am not allowed to have these at this point. My mother and fathers ashes are inside of the house, I just want my house back. I want to believe this is not legal and this did not just happen to me.
A woman gets caught cheating, takes my house, all of my possessions and leaves me and a child homeless. How in the fuck is this right? I have not been able to work, I have done nothing but be a mechanic all of my life.
How is this legal and where can I find help? I am so over whelmed that I have no idea what to do. I have NEVER been in this position before. I do not even have credit cards as I bought cars and other shit cash. I mean what do I do?
I have my checking account and I am soon to start writing bad checks for food and such as I can not afford food or cloths, I have been washing my cloths in the sink and wearing them everyday.
I feel broken and hopeless. I need help, I need help and I do not think anyone gives one shit because I am a man. I will be told to suck it up or I did it to myself, but none of this is true. A woman I thought loved me left me for whoever and stole everything. I have never cheated hit her or done anything to deserve this. And my poor child is a mess because maybe he realizes I am a failure.
I only have three pairs of cloths for him, where do I find more? I need help, I doubt anyone cares but I am turning here. I need help. This is no scam, no joke. I need legit help and I am begging for it.
Local to the Pitt area, does anyone have advice or can lend me money? Ill work it off off a paypal cash, if you have a broken down car, Ill work. Do whatever it takes. I am about to make a sign and stand outside of the motel asking for work. People know me in this town. I just do not know what the hell I should do to proceed. I am honestly BEGGING. I need help people. Please I need the help.
I have days left on the motel, and working I need a grand to get a place, I have no idea where this is coming from as I was cleaned out. i have the court papers to PROVE this. My poor child should not have to endure this life because I was a failure at protecting him.