Hello, my name is Milka Ortiz. I met my husband when I was 16 years old. Had my first child at the age of 18. Married at the age of 19. Had two more children by the age of 27. I did not realize my husband had a very bad habit of cheating. And was only with my because he felt obligated to our children. He would go on to have multiple affairs through the entire marriage. He came down with colon cancer in 2016. I spent seven days on a cot taking care of him only going home to shower and return. He was released seven days later. Only for me to intercept a message from his latest mistress about a week later. He lied about the affair and we started marriage counseling. Only to realize that he was still with the other woman. We tried four marriage counselors which he would go to for a few sessions and not return. Later he revealed that I was trying to hear from these marriage counselors that our marriage was repairable which it was not. On our anniversary on 6-8-17 I kicked him out he moved in with his mistress and her teenage son. I don’t know what happened but he would come crying back four months later. While he was gone I had met someone. Which I believe is why he came back. Oh by the way I forgot to mention since 2008 I have been mentally disabled because of all the mental abuse he put me through. He could not get over that I was with someone else for a brief moment. His logic was that he was in a relationship and all I had was a sexual encounter. He believed that what I had done was millions times worse than all the affairs he had. On 2/26/19 after finding out he was still with his mistress I kicked him out. Not realizing that he was going to cut me off financially. I have a 26 year old son who lives with me because of my frail mind and because I am unfit to take care of myself I lost 19 pounds in two and a half months. And I am a prisoner to my own home because every Pennie the comes in goes to bills. I had to turn to legal aid to start divorce process I started a week after he left and here we are almost in June and my paperwork is still not complete. He hired an attorney and filed for divorce on 4/9/19. My problem is that he has not served me yet. But has placed an injunction on me that I cannot sell anything in the house including the house. He wants the house auctioned off. If not for the help of friends and family I would have defaulted on my mortgage by now. He is to make my son and I homeless. I have to go to food pantries to put food on my table, beg family and friends for toiletries cleaning supplies and laundry products. I cannot leave my home only in cases of emergency because I must save my gas for my vehicle. I find myself in deep depression because of this. My son and daughter had to stop furthering their education because they must help provide. I only get a small social security disability check once a month which does not come close to our bills. I have cut down to the bare minimums. But it’s still not enough. I would like to come up with the funds to not have to continue to beg for help and the funds to buy my husband out of his part of the home. Please take into consideration because of my mental help I cannot work. I have tried through the years but have been unable to hold a job. My psychiatrist tells me I should not be trying to work because of my mental health. He feels I am unfit to work. Please help to put a stop to my husband trying to destroying me any further. My children and I did not cause this. He did.