- I have a good job. For the past 9 years I have lived a good life. This year, an unexpected event happened and now I’m on a hole I can’t get out of. I have tried everything I can to come up with extra money, and nothing is working. I’m soon to loose it all. If I had a family, this might not be as hard but I’m resorted to asking strangers for help. I need at least 10,000 to get out of this hole I’m in. Please help me.