Hello…
I have never done this before, and I am hoping that sharing my story will not be in vain… I am asking for $10,000.00 to get caught up with 3 months rent I am behind on, a gas bill he said he was paying but was not, cable and phone bill and food for myself and my two dogs. I have broken down what is owed.
Rent: $2285.00/m X 3 = $6,855.00 Gas: $1,940.00 Cable/Phone: $1,500.00
My name is Melanie, I used to be a happy go lucky, smart, kind, generous, carefree, young woman with an excellent job and bright future. Until I fell “in love” with an extreme narcissist. I have hit the lowest of the low. I met this wonderful man and though “he’s the one” I just knew it!! In hindsight, it was the moment I found out that I will never be able to trust anyone ever again, not even my own judgement.
From the beginning I was the only one that had a job, I left my apartment to move in with him after a month of meeting. He was a wildlife artist, so he “worked” from home and was able to look after the dogs while I worked. Life was amazing, I felt loved and protected. I was recruited to take a high paying role 3 hours north of where we currently lived. He supported me and pushed me to take it. Fast forward 1 year, we have a beautiful home up north, where my salary is covering everything rent bills food all of it!!! I am sure anyone that has a decent 6figure salary knows it doesn’t come easy. I am now working 15hr days, 6 days a week and is where everything fell apart. I was being blamed for neglecting him, the stress and pressure at work was mounting, he suggested I leave my job, but I could not, little did I know that this was his plan from the beginning. I started to try and save my family and pulled away from work a little. not only did that not save me, but it was also what ended me! Instead, I gave everything I had to both. I had a gut feeling that he was seeing someone else and when questioned it was denied and I was told I was crazy. developed a drinking problem to cope with it all. which led me to being sexually assaulted by a co worker and, I was unable to continue at work. I was on disability and my partner not only did not step up and get a job he stopped all support all together. he knew everything was in my name, so he used that as an opportunity to sink me and then leave. I was put on a ton of medication and was depressed. I made a comment that no longer need to be on this planet, and he called the police, and I was admitted to a 72hr psychiatric hold and while I was gone was sleeping with his side girl in my bed, taking my truck and robbing me of my personal belongings.
Everything I knew he was doing he did, yet I was the crazy one. Then, I went to visit my folks for a couple of days and when I came back. Everything in the house aside from my couch and tv were gone. He stole my clothes, jackets, shoes, furniture, dishes, sentimental heirlooms…. Everything. When I called the police, they told me those are all matrimonial items and if I wanted them back, I would have to get a lawyer and sue him. Cuz I can afford that!?!?!? I tried to go back to work but I am so traumatized that the slightest bit of stress cripples me. I lost two jobs in the last 2 months, assistance from the government barely covers food. I am on the verge of being homeless.
The last thing I want is to lose everything, I want to work, I want to be strong and successful again, but the money pressure trumps it all and I can’t focus on anything else.
I have provided pictures of what was left in the house, and my eviction notice, bills & text messages that have been sent to continuously break me down.
I am aware that there are a lot of people taking advantage of people these days, this is my last resort. While he is off living off his next victim, I am trying to rebuild my life. He sends texts taunting me and laughing in my face about what a loser and how pathetic I am.
Please, this avenue is my last resort. I will prove that your donations are going to a compelling cause by providing updates on my progress.
Thank you, a hundred times, for taking the time to read this.
Melanie, Harley & Charlie
paypal.me/meandharley10