In March 2018, I relocated in order to help my dad organize and run his bagel business. While I was there, I converted his personal and company files onto a cloud based drive (so that he could access them from home), reprogrammed his cash register, redesigned his menu boards, produced marketing materials, worked in the front of the house, created a S.O.P. for his new hires and updated his employee handbook to comply with the new employment laws. My dad offered me a temporary place to live (in his 4,000 square foot home) while I was working for him.
One night I had a guest come visit. He had been drinking so I advised him not to drive home. We went to sleep and I got up to get ready for work the following day. When I arrived at work, my dad decided to tell all of his employees and customers that I was a “whore”. He assumed that I had slept with the kid (and I say “kid” because he’s 21)… I was embarassed and shocked that my dad and business partner would slander my name. I told him that I didn’t sleep with the kid but I was hurt that, that’s what he’d assume.
When I addressed the issue, he gave me a 1 week eviction notice and fired me. I found a place to live with an awesome roomate (cats always land on their feet). However, I’m working for a temp agency and struggling to make ends meet.
Last week, I participated in an amatur night at a local strip club. It was a blast! It was empowering to have people not only watch my performance but reward me financially.
I have 2 classes left till I graduate from college with my Bachelor’s of Science in Communication Studies. I would like to finish my degree but I have outstanding tuition charges. I need to pay rent every month so it’s important that I find a decent wage… In order to pay off my college debt, afford rent, go to school, and find some time for myself, I think entertaining professionally would allow me to do all of this.
I’m looking for people to help me obtain my entertainers license. In the city of San Diego, an entertainer needs to have a license. The fees are upwards of $400. Please help me get on my feet.