Hi my name is Brianna, I made a post but forgot to include my paypal info so here it is again.
My boyfriend and I are in need of serious financial help. I’m not one to ask for handouts ever but I am so desperate I have to try. In December 2017 we got a puppy, after getting neutered in February he became very sick. He was our baby so we agreed to whatever would save him. We ended up with a $7,000 vet bill. Fast forward a few months and our roommates tell us they are moving out. Not being able to afford the place on our own and not being able to find roommates in time we were forced to move in with my boyfriend’s mom. We expected to be here for only a month or two. Because we havent had to pay crazy rent (we live in San Diego) we have paid off the vet bill. However, we used all money we had saved up in order to do so. We’ve now been with boyfriend’s mom for 6 months and are living paycheck to paycheck and off of credit cards. We have several loans, a maxed out credit card and rent ($500 to mother in law) and bills we still have to pay every month. The stress on me has caused me to be diagnosed with major depressive disorder and am seeing a therapist for it. Although therapy is helping I still have major mental meltdowns where I cry I controllable for hours. Just had one today. Living with my boyfriend’s mom is miserable. I am grateful we aren’t homeless but she is constantly getting involved in our relationship. Everything I say or do gets commented on and scrutinized. This has been everyday for 6 months. My mental health is deteriorating because of the financial struggle and living situation I am currently in. Please I just want to be able to pay off our debt so that we can start to save up and move out. When we had our own apartment, we fought less, I cried less, I didn’t need therapy, and I got out of bed everyday. There are days where I stay in bed all day to avoid being judged. I have a place to live but I don’t have a home. I can’t be comfortable at home where everyone should be able to be themselves. Please, I beg you to help us get out of this awful situation. In order to be able to pay off debt and save up we would need a total of about $10,000. $6,000 for credit card, $2,500 for my car loan, $1,000 for his car loan, and $1,500 for other debt including phones and a detox machine. Anything helps. Thank you.